On National Coming Out Day, Marsha Ambrosius released the video for her single “F*ck and Get It Over With,” in which she alludes to having a one-night stand with a woman. Fans and critics pegged it as the singer’s official “coming out.” However, a fired up Ambrosius headed to Facebook to set the record straight (no pun intended).

She writes:

“Double standards! Any male artist can openly brag about how many groupies he gets! Can u imagine how many men AND women have come on to me??? Listen to my music! I tell it! Always! I am not a lesbian! I am straight! I will never say I haven’t fantasized or had sexually explicit dreams about women before! That would make me liar! I’ve been called a lesbian since I got into the entertainment business! You’re no one till someone calls you gay lol I’m so comfortable with myself, I’m not afraid to tell the story from all perspectives! I’ve done so from the very beginning! Ppl hear what they want to hear! I make you listen to what I feel!”

What do you think about the video and her statement?

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  1. Blzn

    For some reason, I’m insulted. Maybe it’s because I never have like any of her “work” anyway. Now I just think she’s using the gay community as a shtick. She coulda kept this song and video. Ridic.


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