If you’ve read her memoir Redefining Realness and follow her on social media, you might think you know everything there is to know about New York Times best-selling author Janet Mock. But in her talk with Google, we learn even more about our bestie-in-our-heads. For breakfast, sweet or savory? Sweet. Aretha Franklin or Patti LaBelle? Patti. The important stuff, ya know? In an interview with Google’s Michael Bolognino, the trans advocate delves into her writing process (she started with journals), themes in her book (family, gender policing, agency, love) and some highlights from the last few months (building intimacy with her readers around points of intersections and resonance). Check it out for yourself.